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Unconditional support over achievement
By @ericleyendecker · Instagram
Source: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdUeB5FCDUY/?stkn=NDF1NzlybHZ1em5w
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Summary
This is a spoken word poem about unconditional love and support, separating self-worth from external achievement. The speaker tells someone that their value has nothing to do with winning, money, or public recognition, only with being okay and being themselves.
Core ideas
- Success vs feeling successful: The speaker draws a line between achieving external wins and internally feeling like you matter, saying failure shouldn't shrink self-worth.
- Unconditional presence: No matter how bad things get, the assignments piling up, the trauma, the tears in the mirror, the speaker promises to stay and reflect back worth.
- Redefining winning: Titles like "first place," "the winner," "the poet," "the CEO" get reframed as symbols of a person's whole identity, not scoreboard positions.
- Money isn't the point: The speaker rejects wanting a million dollars, wanting instead for the person to keep speaking, writing, and existing.
- Failure scenarios named directly: Empty theatres, unsold books, a bankrupt restaurant, cold uneaten meals, a hated draft, all listed as things that wouldn't change the speaker's support.
- One fan is enough: Even if the whole world rejects the work, the speaker frames themselves as the one audience member who never leaves.
- Final reframe: The poem closes by swapping "successful" for "happy," making contentment with self the real goal instead of achievement.
Quotes
“I don't want you to be successful, I want you to feel like a success, so that if everything goes wrong, you don't think of yourself any less.”
“If the theatres were all empty and the books never sold, if the restaurant went bankrupt, if the meals all sat there cold, if nobody saw the vision and just judged the draft to be, if everyone hated your work, you'd still have one fan, me.”
“I don't need a million dollars, I just need you to be okay.”
“I don't want you to be successful, I want to be happy. I want you to be happy with who you are.”
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